Now I have been thinking about this more and more lately. How would I possibly know if I was transgender. Like how could I tell?
Try asking tranny communities online.
they all exist on google.. as does everything else.
above poster still~
sorry if that sounded a little rude. I would help you out, but it takes quite a bit of researching and comparing to know which one is better than all - plus each to his own, anyway. You should just search around until you find one thats right for you (ie. same general age range as you are, etc).
Good luck, and remember not to faulter on finding your true self just because it might be looked down upon by society.
If you don't know, it's probably safe to say you aren't.
IMHO (and this is my strong opinion, which I will state, despite it making me sound like an asshole) - Being a tranny means you've confused your physical gender with your social gender role.
If you were born with a penis and testicles, you're a man. This is in your genes, etched into the core of every cell in your body. If you feel like a woman - talk to your doctor, your sex hormone balance is prolly outta whack (yes, men do require some estrogen, and women do require some testosterone, yes both genders produce both hormones, and yes, these hormones can become imbalanced). Either that or its just something you've managed to convince yourself of. If you're confused, I recommend checking out your crotch to see if you have a penis or a vagina. If you don't like the gender role society demands of you, thats fine, don't fill it, BUT DONT GO AND GET YOUR GENITALS REMOVED.
Reality is far more important than illusion and fantasy, because fantasy is never, ever a fulfilling alternate. This reality check was provided, free of charge, by angrybrain. Have a nice day! :)
Also, one reason I have thought about this was because my penis is fucking annoying. It hurts when things get stuck in there (which is why I refuse to wear a condom) and plus it's fucking small as Hell. I often times wondered if it would be easier just not to have it.
>>8
Being transgendered is not just about being dissatisfied with your genitals. A lot of men think their penis is "too small", some women think their labia are "ugly". That does not at all mean that they're transgendered. The way I understand it, being transgendered means having a strong, persistent desire to belong to the opposite sex. This may sound insensitive, but consider making the best of what you've already got, and keep in mind that if you go for gender reassignment, you will never have fully functional female sex organs. That's reality. We all know it sucks, but there's no alternative. At least not yet.
One more thing: If you insist on not wearing a condom, make sure your partners are tested for STDs, and make sure some other safe kind of birth control method is used (if they're female, of course).
>>9
Trust me, I have thought about that too and I am "trying" to make due with what I have right now. Plus that is one reason I don't want to get a gender reassignment.
Also, of course I like the girl to have protection. Plus I do not even think they make a condom in my size. Unless it gets hard, but what happens when the penis goes back to it's 1 to 3 inch size?
troll, but whatever.
I strongly disagree with ANYONE who, in the face of overwhelming evidence, ignores it and in arrogance or ignorance makes statements to the contrary. Having XY chromosomes, yet saying you are a woman fits right into this.
>>8
Having a vagina would be no different. Prolly be worse. Like...yeast infections.
5.5 inches is around average. Even if its smaller (HALF of men have a penis smaller than this), cutting it off WILL NOT FREAKING HELP.
Discard your fantasy of being a woman, because you know what - that's all it is. Women don't have any less problems than men. I suspect they have even more, its just a different set. It surely won't make life easier or less complicated.
>>11
There's a difference between physical sex and psychological gender, but we tend to refer to them with the same words. Haranguing anyone who happens to feel that in their case the two don't match is a stupid, ignorant, dickhead thing to do. It's fine if you want to say that surgery probably won't solve anything, but maybe he'd be better off talking to someone who's actually been through it to see how they feel about it?
It seems to me that you're the one who's doing what you accuse others of, living in the world as you believe it should be instead of the way it is. There are more ways to live a life than either of us can ever imagine, and judging those lives from a position of ignorance is of no benefit because someday you may end up living one of them yourself.
>>11
Show me your overwhelming evidence, and maybe we can have a serious discussion.
Any statements I have/will make in this and related discussions are my own experience, and may not apply to anyone else. I have done limited research on the subject, and the best that I can say to the OP is that a person to person conversation with one or more people who have been there themselves, or are a therapist/shrink is the best way to figure things like this out. Second best would be an online community. I spent a small amount of time at http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/ that may be a place to start, and certainly will be a better place than here to find the answers you seek.
Also http://www.religioustolerance.org/transsexu0.htm is a good beginner article on the general subject.
>>2
I would go against asking such communities for their advice, as trolls exist on the Internet and this is a serious matter. There are psychological tests based on positive match count that might help the OP, without the need to see a shrink and most likely get influenced.
Just my opinion, though.
>>11
Arrogance or ignorance ? I don't know many adults bragging about not being what they are supposed to be, and even less not being able to tell their gender by their genitalia. Did you mean denial ?
Everyone has their own opinion on the topic, and I personally think you should treat your body in a way you are happy with. I wouldn't dare putting a penis where it doesn't belong either (as I hate the opposite gender with a passion) but like Soemele said rather well, no life model exists.
As for the warnings, people here are supposed to be adults. Even young adults are supposed to be mature, so it's common sense that they should take the time to think about the consequences. If you don't and go wrong, well, sucks for you, but no one really cares.
>Women don't have any less problems than men. I suspect they have even more, its just a different set. It surely won't make life easier or less complicated.
I wish I had those problems. >_>
I wish to be the little girl but you're better off playing with the cards you've dealt, I reckon. It's a nice fantasy but it would never work out and I've yet to see a gender swap that doesn't look slightly off, not to mention anything even resembling a vagina through surgical reconstruction.
But of course read the rest of the thread and follow any sound advise if you care to take things further.
As others have said, sex and gender are different things. If you are a man, and think you are a woman, vagina and all, that would probably be considered a delusion. But if you're a man and female, well, there you go, transgender. Gender is a psychosocial thing, and it can be hard to define. You also do not need to have a vagina to live as a woman, just some hormone replacement therapy and you're good to go (If life was that easy :P) and even in the bedroom you can get around it by being creative. A good place to start is by reading about transgender on wikipedia, and search it up on youtube to hear people talk about their experience, and compare it to yours. I personally like TrannyGirl15.
Also, it's fine to have fantasies like yours. A lot of straight guys do things like dress up as women just to get off on it, but the difference is it's only there to turn them on, it's got nothing to do with the psychosocial crap.
I think a person is a transgender when he or she perfers acting and doing things usually assigned to the opposite gender. I consider myself a gender non-conformist. It's best doing things the best of both worlds. You grow up a smarter man. Like a man that can cook and sew while still understand wrestling or an American football game without falling asleep. I kind of agree with angrybrain to an extent. I am not against transexuals as that is their choice however, if you feel like being a woman you can just do it by switching gender roles. It's the inside and not the outside that counts. However, the whole hormones and operation thing is an option and I would not say it's a bad idea or stuff because it really isn't. I hope religion doesn't get brought into this thread because it would create a very unsound argument and a lot of flaming.
#6 and #19
Transgenderism is not a kink, it is not a state of mind, it is none of those. It is a condition whereby, for currently unconfirmed reasons, the body integrity instincts (the ones that tell you how things should look - why seeing disfigured people can be slightly sickening) are those for the opposite sex (that sickening feeling, about yourself, 24/7, driving you completely insane). It isn't possible to alter these, with therapy, medication or anything else. As such, the only solution (aside from madness or death) is transition. As best as can be divined, this is a result of the brain and genitals developing at different stages of pregnancy, and hormone spikes in the mother causing one to differ from the other (iirc, the only sexual characteristic defined in the XY chromosomes is something to do with nipple size - the "XY = boy, XX = girl" argument can be broken down by simply pointing to AIS people [they're "immune" to testosterone, so, while having a Y, are born female] - the XY chromosomes are simply helpful pointers for the mother's hormonal system)
/WoT
#1
If you think your penis is too small, then the probability of you being transgendered is so insanely small it may as well be 0. However, I do recommend exploring yourself some more, and feel free to discuss these things around on the internets
TLDR - Don't bother replying if you didn't bother to read, IN ITS ENTIRETY, either my original post, or this reply.
Alright, I could reply to each and everyone of your posts, point for point, but I'd be all damn day at it, and spamming this thread with a million replies isn't my idea of a proper response.
I DO NOT HATE TRANSGENDERS. I just want to get that out of the way first. I DO hate psychologists, for more reasons than I can enumerate here. Thats for another thread though, I suppose. ;)
I'll go ahead and step you through the thread of my logic on this topic.
Transgenders are different. Should go without saying, yah? BUUUUUUUT ... We humans are social creatures. Societies regulate themselves by attaching penalties to those who are different, and in extreme cases, excluding some completely. Sad, but true, and frankly, the only real way things can work (most of us here have probably seen this in action). Our common ground gives us a launching point for relationships, it gives us all the same (ok, VERY) general point of view. It facilitates communication between us. This gives us a reason to work together cooperatively, instead of, say, attacking each other with rocks and sticks. It's more complicated than that, but that'll do for the short-and-sweet version.
Those who are different are, generally, excluded from some or all of the pleasures of belonging to a large, complex society. They end up forming their own, of course (Prison Culture, Gay Culture, etc.) which serves some or all of their social needs, but also serves to highlight these differences (Primary example here is Gay Pride), requiring them to lean on thier alter-culture even more, making the differences more appearant, and reintegration into primary society more difficult, so on and so forth until they belong 100% in this small alter-culture and, realistically, cannot be brought back to mainline society.
Though my experience is limited, I do have two ... I dunno, cross-gender persons I interact with on a nearly daily basis (no surgery, both just act, dress, and styles themselves as a female, though both are obviously male). I see how people (in primary society) treat them, and thats a constant thing - every time those people go out into public, they're faced with whispers, looks, etc - basically, the penalties incurred by not belonging to primary society. This is every. Fucking. Day. Without end.
Also, they can't reproduce (naturally). I'm not pointing this out because I think it's not obvious, just for the sake of being thorough.
Like fever and coughing are symptoms of the flu, these are SOME of the symptoms of an underlying problem.
Suppose that, in human genetics, there is no 'Gay Gene' or 'Transgender Gene' thats on or off like a switch, mainly because such behavior would take many, many, MANY genes to accomplish. Such a gene sequence COULD NOT through evolution exist, because during evolution, an organism with such a sequence WOULD NOT SEXUALLY REPRODUCE, thus this gene sequence would not have been passed on. (I don't even want to think about the 'Well what if this could happen TODAY, frequently' case - I'd like to think our DNA was a little more intact than this, so I'll happily assume such is the case!) Assume there are just a few (I use few very loosely - think thousands and thousands!) sequences that encode instinctive behavior for sexuality. These sequences CAN, in parts, be expressed strongly (on) or weakly (off) through the neuron structure these genes encode. Now suppose that the results of these sequences can be suppressed or encouraged (when certain segments are expressed weakly) by environmental factors (parents, peers, etc in the form of negative(unsupportive) or positive (supportive) experiences). The end result is essentially that social programming (both negative and positive) can have a larger-than-optimal impact on our image of sexual self/sexual behaviour.
Thats the impact of this supposition. Our DNA, mutated to the point where it's possible to easily break the chain of reproduction that has served most of life on this planet for a billion years or more. Sad state of affairs, isn't it?
So how does this relate to me taking a strong stance on transgenderism? Why am I stopping my explanation here?
Simple : I am a part of the OP's environment (If you've read, you'll see that I believe that environment is the main factor for transgenderism (#20 - I WILL reply to you individually on this), and I don't need to go any further than that. All of you who have replied or remained silent are a part of the environment too. Without any thought at all to the impact of your statements, some of you blithely try to suppress his heterosexuality under the guise of tolerance by encouraging him to submerge himself in alter-cultures that will probably try and guide him to getting his genitals replaced. (This won't work on HIM, because he's not actually transgendered, but if he were - congrats, you've just pushed him another step on the way to misery. He knows he has problems, he's just looking in the wrong places to find the answers. As a side note, I'd be shocked to find out that he REALLY is old enough to be on this board. If he is, in reality, over 14, he must lead an exceedingly isolated life).
Now I've got selfish genes. I have no problem with people becoming transexual, gay, committing suicide, or whatever - It means less competition down the road for my own offspring, and less people crowding the planet.
I'm a human though. I can empathize. Rare is the case for someone to be in ANY abnormal circumstance and be even half as happy as they could be without it. Most come with misery and alienation. I don't want that, intellectually, for anyone. Thats why I've gone out and voiced my opinions on the subject - because I feel that in almost all cases there IS a way to bring people back to normal. (Don't make me laugh and try to say 'YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT NORMAL IS' - Normal is being able to have sex and produce offspring with your chosen mate, which IS normal for pretty much all meat-based life on this planet.)
From what I understood :
Interesting !
>>21
Transgender people have just the same chance of finding a mate, and most of them save their own sperm so they can reproduce. It's society that needs to be changed. Either by Gay Pride Parades or even yes, Feminism. They have a lot of theories on this. Just check Wikipedia.
How do you know all transgender people are loyally? Society is different everywhere. This might happen in America, which is why we need change. God damn, I sounded like I was rallying for Obama right there. Anyways, yeah...
Just a few individual points I'd like to address.
>>but like Soemele said rather well, no life model exists.
I don't agree that Soemele said anything well. My stated opinion was responded to with a personal attack and an almost completely emotional response. As to 'no life model exists' - I may have covered this in my latest reply (>>21), but I'll ask instead for you to expand on this statement, since I could be reading it in a way you didn't intend for it to be read.
You perceive your problems as a man to be untenable (you've as much as stated this in this thread). What reason do you have to think things would be easier to bear as a woman? Please be specific - 'I dunno, It just feels that way' is not a reason!
trans·gen·der /trænsˈdʒɛndər, trænz‑/ Pronunciation Key - [trans-jen-der, tranz‑]
–noun
1. a person appearing or attempting to be a member of the opposite sex, as a transsexual or habitual cross-dresser.
–adjective Also, trans·gen·dered.
2. being, pertaining to, or characteristic of a transgender or transgenders: the transgender movement.
Pretty much every dictionary definition of transgender follows this. >>18 is expanding this definition, and >>20 is narrowing this definition.
>> Transgenderism is not a kink, it is not a state of mind, it is none of those.
This statement is FAR too absolute. But it's only part of the concept you're conveying, so I'll cover it in the next part.
>> It is a condition whereby, for currently unconfirmed reasons, the body integrity instincts (the ones that tell you how things should look - why seeing disfigured people can be slightly sickening) are those for the opposite sex (that sickening feeling, about yourself, 24/7, driving you completely insane)
Transgenderism is a category for somewhat similiar sexual behaviours (which is, all in all, a pretty damn broad category). What you are describing is only a single point among many, many others.
>> (iirc, the only sexual characteristic defined in the XY chromosomes is something to do with nipple size - the "XY = boy, XX = girl" argument can be broken down by simply pointing to AIS people [they're "immune" to testosterone, so, while having a Y, are born female] - the XY chromosomes are simply helpful pointers for the mother's hormonal system)
You recall incorrectly, and have derived an absurd conclusion from it. The Y chromosome contains the genes responsible for formation of the testes during fetal development, among other male-specific functions (such as sperm formation). The bulk of male associated physical traits are actually controlled by, yup, the family of testosterones. Your confusion (along the lines of the Y chromosome being unimportant) may lie in the fact that there are no genes vital to life on the Y chromosome (which women don't have - if there were vital genes on the Y chromosome, there'd be no women!).
People with CAIS are completely immune to the effects of testosterone. Some people are partially immune, or are only slightly resistant (some cases of infertility in men have been linked to weak AIS, but some others not so much). Testosterone is primarily responsible for masculine attributes - people born with CAIS still have testes (which may be underdeveloped even in adulthood), not ovaries, but cannot display them because, due to the CAIS, the scrotum was never formed. The hormone that would have told the fetus to develop a scrotum (testosterone) was never recieved. They lack female genitals because, genetically, they're male, estrogen production in the fetus and later at puberty is typical for men, not women - The hormones are there, and balanced, but testosterone essentially does nothing. Outside of the gentials, they present as female gender, not because the XY chromosome does nothing, but because the hormonal messenger that tells the body during puberty to develop certain male attributes is ineffective.
The mothers hormonal system does not dictate the gender you're born with - your DNA does. XX = Female. XY = Male. There are other combinations (X, XXY, etc) but the discussion of these are somewhat beyond the topic at hand. The mother's hormones CAN adversely affect the developing fetus, but not to the extent that a genetic male would be born with female genitals - this would be a genetic defect.
So, yes, in cases of people with CAIS, surgery is the ONLY option, since they will NEVER present any masculine attributes (right now. Perhaps in the future we can correct body-wide genetic defects). This describes a very small percentage of those who can be classified as transgender. A VERY small percentage!
>> If you think your penis is too small, then the probability of you being transgendered is so insanely small it may as well be 0
I completely agree with you here.
>> However, I do recommend exploring yourself some more, and feel free to discuss these things around on the internets
Aaaaand we're back to disagreeing, but I covered why I object in >>21.
>> transgender and homosexual people are mutants,
Yes, more or less. Surely there are a lot of cases where people do this, say, to get attention from thier parents, or to get revenge on a former lover, or whatever, and these people aren't mutants - just a little off in the head. ;)
>> rapists are normal people,
Come again? Where, exactly, did I state that?
>> only conformism allows for a social life.
Pretty much, yah. Only if you conform to society-prime's expectations of its members will you fit in with society-prime.
If you fail to conform to an alter-culture's expectations, it's members will likely not want to have much to do with you either.
Go out into public wearing a shirt with some of Tsepesi's artwork printed on it. Think most people would approve? No. Think they'd call the cops? Yeah, probably. You're blatantly showing allegiance to an alter-culture (guro) which society-prime will actively suppress/penalize you for.
Fail straw man is fail.
You didn't read my posts. Go back and READ. Think a little bit. Formulate an intelligent response. Post again.
>> They have a lot of theories on this. Just check Wikipedia.
Who are "They". What is "this". Wikipedia is a supplemental reference only - using it as a primary reference is foolish.
>It's society that needs to be changed.
Society doesn't need to be changed, it is working as it was supposed to be working. It is just some people that probably need to mature over and get over this idea and understand that hatred and racism will exist as long as there are people to think they deserve special treatment for being "different". Everyone is different, just try to fit in it and stop being such a wussie.
Uhh no. Hatred and racism exist because a majority does not want people to fit in. Does "Seperate But Equal" ring a bell to you?
People strive for equality, not for special treatment. Society itself makes it impossible to "fit in", because there's a preexisting, out of date model of normality.
Rights have only been given to people when there's been enough outrage about it, like Women's Suffrage, etc.
>Uhh no. Hatred and racism exist because...
There are actually several reasons why those exist, I just mentioned one out of one million while you're still trying to crubbling to make a point.
>People strive for equality.
People strive for a lot of things in life.
>Society itself makes it impossible to "fit in"...
That doesn't even make sense.
>>24
'I dunno, It just feels that way' is not a reason!
It could be. If one is going by intuition as their reason, it can be very hard to logically explain. 'it just feels right' is actually a common reason that people use when referencing their intuition. Which for many people who are primarily right-brained, can be very strong. Also for right-brainers, logically putting into words their reasons can be next to impossible.
One thing this thread has failed to remember. Knowledge corrupts. As such, spend less time trying to figure out the why, and spend more time just being.
Afterall, we only have one life, and to waste it on petty understandings, seems kinda silly to me.
But that's just me.
If you're potentially thinking about having your penis chopped off, intuition is maybe not the best thing to guide you, yah? Also consider most surgeons won't do drastic elective surgery without making DAMN sure you're of sound mind, because if they don't make sure, they stand to lose everything. Intuition WILL NOT suffice.
Difficulty articulating is perfectly OK and can be overcome with hard work. Using it as an excuse not to think is not something I can support - which seems an awful lot like what you are advocating.
facepalm WRONG CHAN. This is gurochan, not 4chan. Though I'll say this woulda had most of /b/ raging uncontrollably.
>>26
So I suppose you support the mistreatment of women? Persecution of blacks? This is why we need to make the world better for future generations. It's people like you that makes this world a horrible place. Now go get the fuck out of my world and go suck a fucking coke.
I might as well ask this here since it was brought up. I have having concerns now. I think I have a mircopenis, in fact it's not very big right now. I've first checked on Wikipedia and searched various links from Yahoo. Gender reassignment has happen because of this, but mostly at birth or either when the child is old enough to make a decision.
Now here is the thing, they say that anything below 2.5 inches erected is considered a micropenis. However mine has gotten beyond that I am sure. However not-erect it most certain is below 2.5 inches. My balls seem to be a bit small as well. I am afraid that I might not have enough sperm to have children someday and my lifetime goal of having a family might be tossed out of the window. I am afraid I might not be able to sexually arouse a woman or feel sexual enjoyment without seeking a man.
However whenever I see a picture like what I am about to show you. My penis has been known to get large beyond the 2.5 inches mark. But that was when I imagine myself as one of the women. Which is why I am beginning to think they maybe connected. I mean, how am I suppose to please a women when I get off on imagining myself as the woman?
Picture here: http://img100.imageshack.us/img100/7202/1175178259679zl1.jpg
>>35
The wikipedia article is in my link in my name.
As this article I found on About.com.
Quoting from wikipedia (god help me, but this is what you saw, and what I need to clarify) -- "A common criterion is a dorsal (measured on top) erect penile length of at least 2.5 standard deviations smaller than the mean penis size."
I've accented the part you misread. The actual value, oddly enough, is close to the standard deviations read as inches, at a little less than 3 inches (2.8 inches or so). If you are below this value, you can't be said to have this condition. If you are NOT fully erect, you cannot accurately measure your erect penis length. If you cannot GET fully erect, well, this may be a sign of another problem (Personally, I find it extremely hard to accurately measure myself - mostly because I'm not used to being distracted. Yes, yes, I know. "Just focus angrybrain." If only it were that simple! This may be the case for you, or it may be something else entirely). If you've gotten half an inch beyond 2.5" (you didn't specify your actual length) then most likely you won't be diagnosed with this specific condition (there may be others though - go and see a doc if you're really concerned).
If not being able to father children is a serious concern for you, sperm count and motility tests can be done to determine if this is an issue. If it is, THEN they can start looking for root causes, and the cause can be treated. Even if, in an absolute worst case scenario, you absolutely cannot impregnate a woman naturally - artificial insemination is getting to be pretty damned reliable. Sperm count and motility aren't a factor for this either, so no worries there.
Performance anxiety is perfectly normal. Every guy goes through this at least once, but most of us rather frequently. Totally nothing to worry about unless it persists, time and time again, partner after partner. Pretty much every time. Then you might want to consider seeing a professional, because at that point it likely qualifies as an anxiety disorder.
Fear of being able to arouse a woman? Arousal is easily accomplished, and requires very little from you. Did you mean orgasm? Orgasm takes a lot more work, but once you know where the clitoris is, and how your woman likes it touched, also rather simple (just bear in mind, what works for one girl might not work so well for the next). Trust and communication are your best friend here - without either of these, sex is less than stellar, and in some cases, completely unsatisfactory for BOTH parties. Keep an open mind, Don't be afraid to ask questions to find out how SHE likes it, and Keep your focus on her. Far easier said than done, I know, but just TALK TO HER and you'll find out for yourself.
As for fapping to the thoughts of yourself as one of the victims - Not uncommon. It doesn't REALLY get discussed a whole lot, but I do it occasionally myself - maybe 25% of the time? It's called masochism (the desire to be hurt), and you'll find it fully stocked here at gurochan (the opposite of masochism is sadism, or the desire to hurt others - also fully stocked here!). Sado-Masochism is the term for me. I can go either way, imagining myself doing the slicing, or the one being sliced, though I definitely lean more towards sadism. (I say it's not uncommon around here, but gurochan is not mainstream society, and the frequency of sado-masochism is pretty much unknown and unknowable. Could be every other person is a closet sadist, could be 1 in 50,000! It does amuse me to imagine every other person as a closet sadist though - Everyone all scared that they're the only one, and everyone too scared to say anything, but we're all going around with the same feelings. ROFL)
I think going under the knife, based on what you've said, would be going entirely too far, considering that the surgery would do nothing for you. You would look at your crotch and go 'Man I don't find this attractive at all. OH SHIT GUYS ARE GONNA HATE ME!' and then you'd be back in the same boat. Just remember - Looking for treatments before you know what exactly the problem is is asking for a boatload of trouble.
A more appropriate response would be to see a GP (general practitioner) who can refer you to various specialists as needed. He or the specialists will be able to find out exactly where you stand, physically, physiologically, and psychologically, and from THERE can begin treatment IF REQUIRED (you may just need to talk to a therapist, as you may not actually HAVE any physical or genetic problems).
If, however, you choose not to see a GP, chances are you'll only get worse psychologically, which will have an increasingly detrimental effect on your sexual health as time goes by. So go and see a GP ASAP.
Hope this helps!
Oh man I'm tired.
If you are LONGER this value, you can't be said to have this condition.
Thats what that should say. If you are shorter than 2.8" or so, you've probably got this condition. Longer than 2.8", probably not.
>>32
Most surgeons won't do gender reassignment surgery without years of professional therapy. Yes, years.
Generally speaking, therapists understand that intuition can be just as strong of a driving force as logical deduction, and as such, over about the same amount of time, could recommend gender reassignment.
My suggestion to stop trying to figure things out was aimed to the OP. I have spent the better part of the last 12 years or so trying to figure out the whys and wherefores. In the end, while I do have a better understanding of my chemical makeup, I do not know why I am the way I am. I just know that I like the way I am, and that I'm content to continue to crossdress regularly.
>So I suppose you support the mistreatment of women? Persecution of blacks? This is why we need to make the world better for future generations. It's people like you that makes this world a horrible place. Now go get the fuck out of my world and go suck a fucking coke.
It won't be long enough until you realise you have been able to change nothing in the world with that lil' comentary of yours.
Enjoy the fail.
Why are you acting so aggressively? You're posting on Gurochan, forget about fitting in. ;)
>>40
If more people we like me, then this world will be a better place. If there is one thing I envy of Christians, it's that they stick together. Why can't we as a species do this for the greater good?
>If there is one thing I envy of Christians, it's that they stick together. Why can't we as a species do this for the greater good?
One word: Atheists. It's the classic Ying Yang.
In b4 there is no such thing as an ideal world.
