Now I feel a little weird for asking this, but I sometimes have crushes on some of the Avatar girls. Like Azula, Katara, and Ty Lee. So I have a question, is this healthy to have crushes on not real cartoon characters?
Also, sometimes I use the characters to live out my fantasies. This isn't that weird right?
healthy? i guess it isn't less healthy than having crush on real cartoon characters...
It's a normal fantasy. Like how I have a thing for various toon/anime/game females.
Aisha Clan-Clan, Katara, Mai, Toph, Midna, Krystal, Arumi, R. Dorothy Wayneright, the list goes on and on.
So long as you don't tell friends and family members that they are your REAL girlfriends, like some guy showing you to his invisible wife.
Perfectly natural, but Avatar? Choose better material :P
>>7
I have no real friends, other then Liamane online. I consider her a friend and she has a crush on Vincent Valentine. :P
Perfectly normal?
i always start out my sexual fantasies with lisa simpson. like she's being kidnapped/tortured or some shit. been doing it for forever it feels like, i end up hating myself for it. i dont even think i see her in my mind, its just the name that leads my thoughts and the events i put it in. my thoughts fucking ALWAYS drift to her when my head hit the pillow at night, these last months I never jack off though but just get bored and fall asleep. sometimes I get locked in the illusion I create though and cant stop thinking of it, then i have to jack off. but if I do cum it always gets worse and I can stay up all night because i need to build upon my scenario and see where it does. it's like im building a porn novel every night with lisa simpson in it, sometimes I think I would do well in writing them down to get it out of my system but that would only encourage me to keep it up and it would be a fucking waste of time
so NO it's not fucking normal. force youself to stop thinking about cartoon people or you might end up like me, and trust me you do not want that. i don't mean you should not fap to them because that you should, if its hot its hot, but don't lock down on one non-existant person and start thinking about her at times other than when you have your dick in your hand in front of your computer
I'd say it depends on how well you can keep the boundary between reality and fantasy.
Kinda like having a love doll. Some people end up having full on, long term 'relationships' with the doll, whereas others simply use it for occasional fantasy play.
That's my two cents.
you know, speaking of #10, and avatar...
would anyone happen to have a clip of The Deserter where Katara is burned? That scream sent me over the edge since I guessed it was coming (but didn't expect such an awesomely sexy scream) and was already excited about it. Although I was hoping some of it would hit her in the face as well, so my zutara faggotry could go hooray, they match!
Unfortunately my family got hooked on it, even my parents, so when that episode came, and I did as well...I sat funny and cross-legged then had to soak my underwear and hang it up between some shirts to dry off so nobody would notice.
Nothing wrong with having crushes on fictional characters.
I have quite a couple of crushes as well. Near (Death Note), Azure Kite (.hack), all of the Soul Calibur girls (but Tira most of all) Citrine (Xenosaga) and lots more.
Tira is the character I go absolutely 'stereotypical fangirl' over...
This image made me wish I was Katara and I was property of Azula? Is this natural too?
http://plus4chan.org/boards/a/src/121823099277.jpg
Omg Tira, is she still as good in SC4? Haven't got my hands on it yet but she was my favourite in 4.
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"*Level 4 Defense Mechanism :
These are commonly found among emotionally healthy adults and are considered the most mature, even though many have their origins in the immature level. However, these have been adapted through the years so as to optimize success in life and relationships. The use of these defences enhances user pleasure and feelings of mastery. These defences help the users to integrate conflicting emotions and thoughts while still remaining effective. Persons who use these mechanisms are viewed as having virtues.
These include:
Altruism: Constructive service to others that brings pleasure and personal satisfaction.
Anticipation: Realistic planning for future discomfort.
Humor: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about) that gives pleasure to others. Humor, which explores the absurdity inherent in any event, enables someone to call a spade a spade, while "wit" is a form of displacement (see above under Category 3). Wit refers to the serious or distressing in a humorous way, rather than disarming it; the thoughts remain distressing, but they are 'skirted round' by the witticism.
Identification: The unconscious modeling of one's self upon another person's character and behavior.
Introjection: Identifying with some idea or object so deeply that it becomes a part of that person.
Sublimation: Transformation of negative emotions or instincts into positive actions, behavior, or emotion.
Suppression: The conscious process of pushing thoughts into the preconscious; the conscious decision to delay paying attention to an emotion or need in order to cope with the present reality; able to later access uncomfortable or distressing emotions and accept them.*"
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>This image made me wish I was Katara and I was property of Azula? Is this natural too?
It seems so.
WEll..to other people its fucked up...but to me..Hey its fine. Haha. I have my cartoon crushes myself... Lawliet, who is from Death Note...Itachi, who is from Naruto...Yeah. Im one fucked up chick. I love it.
