So, I'm a month pregnant... I'm a little ashamed but I definitely cant keep it. After reading my options, I decided to try to go to the clinic to get the pill. The issue is that I want to keep the aborted pieces (maybe in a jar). I figured since it's a touchy subject, I would ask the wonderful posters of guro for decent opinions on how I should do this. I want it as a reminder to be more careful. I've been with the guy for a year and a half just to throw that in there...
Im a troll.
I think there would be the issue of decay/decomposition that needs to be considered.
I am guessing you want to keep it to show your kids in the future that this is what you could of done to them.
Also take some fucking responsibility and practice safer sex next time.
>If I were a woman, I would have promiscuous unprotected sex with every partner available. Then, after being pregnant for 3 months each time, I would have an abortion and take home the potato sized dead fetus back to my home and put it in a jar with formaldehyde. Then, after lining an entire room in these jars, I would actually give birth to a kid. Every time that kid acted up, I would force him to stay in that room for an hour to let him know how easily I could have aborted him too.
I apologize if this sounds harsh, but I find what you're describing to be extremely disgusting.
I'm pro-abortion, but keeping parts of the fetus in a jar? That's just...a bit over the line.
Isn't there some other way you can remind yourself to be more careful...?
>>7
If only more people were like you. Now most parents don't even give a damn when their children steal something or hurt someone.
>>1
If this is legal for you to keep an aborted foetus where you live, using a transparent jar (so that you can see through) with formaldehyde (so that the parts don't decay) sounds good enough to me.
Permasage? Bad judgement, mods.
That'd be fairly impossible. At that stage, its not a fetus, its an embryo, like, a tenth of an inch big.
The longer you wait, the harder it'd be to get an abortion.
Furthermore, Abortions at that stage usually means the entire cleaning of the contents of the uterus, eggs, menstrual content, etc. They're removed, and a doctor isn't going to dig through it for your benefit. It'd be utterly decomposed within weeks - that Embryo won't serve as any sort of reminder.
I call troll.
I think keeping the pieces is a bad idea. The trauma caused to both the mother and the father by having an abortion is well documented. I would be hard pressed to believe that it would not be a lot worse if you kept the parts. They would end up being a constant reminder to you.
Just my two cents.
>>10
Didn't notice the sage. Point still stands about lax parents.
it's not to show children. I want it for myself. I also know I needed to practice safe sex... It's funny that out of all the things guro, this is the one people seem to frown on. Also:
>>12 I understand it would be tiny, but I'm curious if I could preserve it somehow. Maybe if I just put the clotted pieces in a jar? one piece is bound to be embryo, I suppose...
>>13 It'd keep me from making stupid mistakes like this though. I think I'm painting a prettier picture of this then it's probably going to be, but I like this idea of keeping it in a jar.
Safer sex - fixed.
Even when tubes are tied, it's not 100% effective 100% of the time.
How old are you? It seems to be a safe assumption that you are on the younger side, is your age a factor in why you can't keep it?
I still say it'll be an unnecessary reminder for you, and unwanted. I don't know you, so I may be wrong. However, I know several women who have had a single abortion, and knew from then on, that they would never do so again. Either they would play 'safe' or would carry the child. The trauma was enough that they knew that they could never face it again.
It's your body to do with what you want. However, just remember that it's also your mind, and it sometimes reacts in ways that we don't expect.
