Anyone into real life scat? I would just like to ask someone who is really into that how in heck do you even find a woman that would be into that? I mean really? How would you even work of the nerve to ask your g/f if she would do some of this stuff with you? What if she totally freaks and says something like. "That is so disgusting!" then brakes up with you over it?

>Don't be oblique about it. Just say "Hey, <name>, can I tell you something about myself? If you think it's weird, that's okay, but I'd really like to try it." and then explain what you want.

Worth a shot. If they leave you just for asking, I don't know if they were worth keeping anyway.