I saw an enema thread and got this idea after reading that a hand heald shower head could be used to give a quick enema in the shower. I plan on buying one now and it gave me an idea to have a general tips thread for anal play.
My tips are:
Remove any hair you might have around your butt, this makes things much more clean, and you arnt likely to snag any hairs when you play with your ass. Either shave, or use nair. I find that nair works great for the ass and use it every few weeks. I spead it on, then sit on the toilet(so my cheeks are open) and read, then shower and remove the hair. It looks very clean after Im done.
Also get a small plug. I got mine at a sex shop. If you are nervous about going into a sex shop then dont be. Everyone is there for the same reason, and they are usualy very clean places where everyone just minds their own business. After you go to one for the first time then you will know what I mean. Just remember to wear tight underwear incase your dick gets hard.
Sometimes I sleep with the plug in my butt. I would def try this. It's so relaxing and it might give you some nice dreams.
Without toys though, I just use my fingers. Ill squat down in the shower and rock back then return to kind of fuck myself with my fingers. I can usualy get up to 3 in. Sometimes I can fuck a bottle. A thick glass one that wont break usualy. Now that im older I dont feel too safe about this and am looking for something else.
Also, I got a larger plug, and my anus reaches the "hurting point" right before the largest part goes in my ass, so I have to work my way up to it, eith by fucking that plug untill im loose, or by fucking a smaller plug, then do the large one.
How do you guys keep clean? I usualy drink some coffee, then wait an hr or so before I play with my ass, or Ill do it in the morning(I usualy poo before sleeping).
Also, after anal play, does anyone else have that strange fishy smelling gel like stuff come out of their ass? I have no idea what it is and have never read about it.
Also, how old was everyone when they started? I was 8. I started after I saw someone in school do it. I thought it was gross at first, then tried it myself.
Sory if that was unclear, english is not my first language :)
Okay, I'm a girl, but I'm really into guys recieving it anally. This thread was some fun stuff - I'll take the information about the shower and use it wisely, since I'm really not into scat and the one reason I've never rimmed a guy is because of that factor. And I'd love to rim a guy. .. I bet he'd make such pretty noises as he squirmed against my tongue ohmygod. <3 So, thanks for that tip. ^^
The sentence about you rocking back and forth on your fingers in the shower turned me on, hahah. Good job. <333
And.. The fact that you started when you were eight. <33~ Sohot.
I'll be watching this thread like a pedophile watches a playground.
>>1
im a guy but im curious, after having anal sex or filling ur arse with stuff like buttplaugs and shit is it harder to take a shit normally? like does it fuck up the anus muscles? i always feel guilty ive played with my arse cause i feel like ive ruin a part of me...
Anal sex trains the anus muscles, as long as you don't overdo it.
i have been doing stuff like this in the shower since i was 14 (18 now) and i rarly do it out of the shower i have used alot of "toys" some cleaner then others i really want to get a plug but im out of money i have goten it strached pretty big (small shampoo bottle) about 4in wide that one hurt so i dont do that one much
yeah i always play around with the shower head and i love them "quick emimas"
lube is your friend
that is all
Wow, I can't believe who young you all were when you tried this. Although I was 4 when I started. ;P
That fishy stuff is human lubrication. It is produced by (I think) the prostate gland to assist in defecation but it could be some sort of smaller mucus membrane. I think women get it also, so probably not the prostate. Anyway, it's normal. And been anal playing since I was 16. Started kinda late, but that's because of my family's anti-sex thing. Oh, and Pelki? YOUR post turned ME on. Women and anal just do that to me, dunno. Giving AND receiving.
Hahaha well Pelki is weird she doesn't really do the whole recieving bit, just the giving. <3~~
If Pelki wants to give, I'd love to receive ;)
I'm a girl, and my very first anal experience was when I was about eight. I pushed a crayon up my butt! I got scared when it went too far, but I ended up pooping it into the toilet.
(I did not save it! FLUSH!!!)
Shortly after that, I invented enemas.
(At least I thought I did!)
While taking a bubble bath, I placed my finger over my anus. I sort of started pumping water into myself. It felt strange but nice and warm. As you can probably guess, this ended in a huge disaster! I cried my eyes out while my mom helped me clean myself back up...YUCK! I never did it again! To this day I am NO FAN of scat because of that!
I do indulged in the occasional 'water' play with my boyfriend though. Go figure.
(^_^)
Hi Pelki!
Wow, I'm also surprised how young some of you tried it, I've had a couple of unpleasant bath events in the past but it hasn't put me off scat. First properly tried anal when I was 14, didn't like it at first but it's grown on me :)
This thread has made me want to do something naughty but I'm not very clean and I can't be bothered cleaning my shit up tonight (literally).
Im a guy, and my first anal exp came whan I was about 6(?) I think. I discovered I could push a finger up my butt as I was in the bath. No accidents. All just naughty and oddly nice.
I have since developed a healthy appetite for both giving and receiving anal. Pelki, your comment about rimming is spot on. An ex of mine once fingered me using fingers on both hands while she stuck her tongue inbetween. (I was sitting on her face). I swear it was the best sensation I ever had in my life. I came, and the world went blank, I just lost it. I think I may have tried to force her head into my butt. The feeling is like "I have to open up absolutely totally" while something warm and slippery moves inside your ass.
At the same time, rimming girls is one of my favourites as well. And I am not really too picky about them being clean. I just love to shove my tongue up there; and if there is something in there -- well, I lick that too. It's nasty, but I like nasty.
Guy, doing it since I was 11, just remember starting to stick bigger and bigger things in my ass and giving myself enemas. Ever since I bought a strap on, my girlfriend pegs me regularly.
>>14
Have you ever considered being fucked by a man? I think for you that would feel a lot better than a strap on. And your girlfriend would probably get off on it too.
>>11
You can probably answer that, would like to see a man cum inside your boyfriend?
I hope that is not going to far, but it really is the proper way to enjoy anal, IMHO. Fucking > pegging
And before anyone starts with that god-damn "balls touch" nonsense... just don't. The sex is gay that doesn't mean you are. In fact I am surprised no one has made that dumb comment yet. Fuck I am probably going to regret even saying that.
>>15
There are more gay guys here than you might think. Honestly, getting another guy is my favorite way of anal ;3
>>17
Oh, I figured that. I just said, there are more gay guys here than you would think. So, others share your opinion. Don't be such a pessimist ^_^
>>19
That was most likely sarcasm. He was merely supporting your point :)
I honestly think my bf MIGHT like anal, but he won't give it a try, I know.
See, when we're playing, he loves me to rub his butt, and every time we get to it, my fingers end up closer and closer to his asshole.
But I don't think he'll let me go all the way. Any tips on coercement are welcome!
I'm transgender and I haven't been into anal for too long. Since age of 16 I think. A huge turnon for me is men to recieve but women recieving anal doesn't do much for me. For me I always do it in the shower usually just with my fingers since I have no sex toys (just recently turned 18)
Oh god having a woman rimming my ass sounds so hot. As for me rimming a woman it would have to be very clean because I absolutely hate scat
I'm a girl... I wanna rim a guys ass and anal rape him @_@
>>>15
She and I have been looking for the right guy for a threesome for a long time, because we want the person to be able to play with both of us, and we've got to both find the person attractive. As for the gay thing, I've always liked the term heteroflexible, which is what I describe myself as. I'll only be emotionally involved with girls, but sometimes I just feel like getting fucked by a guy just to change things up.
>>>25
I know, ever since I first heard it I've loved it. The other problem that we face is she and I are both submissive, so we'll want a dom if we're going to play with him. As if it wouldn't be hard enough already.
>>26
This sounds like the perfect for all the complete psychos here. Both submissive, that is fucking excellent. But if you are willing that spoils it for me. But perhaps the dominant side could be brought out of your girlfriend. Then you would be utterly screwed.
>>>26
I think I am actually extraordinarily lucky as it is, to first have a girlfriend, second a good looking one, third one that's cool with us fooling around with other people or together, and fourth one that knows the full range of my kink. I try often to bring out her dom side, with limited success. As for being willing, there's enough stuff that I wouldn't be willing to do that I'm sure you could find SOMETHING fun for you to do to me.
http://jp.youtube.com/watch?v=9pMoJTeoLZU
Not exactly what the topic's about, but still relevant.
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my dream, tough I hope when I'm blindfolded the girl wouldn't swap with a guy
>>31 I wouldn't mind if she did. in fact, that'd make it more degrading when I felt the cum fill me up.
What would you people recommend for an easy home enema? I would like to be a bit cleaner when I'm masturbating.
>>3 you'll notice your ass to be diffrent if you stick anythign larger than a small poo in it so i recommend not to, but i strongly recommend not sticking anythign in your peehole because then your pee doesn't come out in the stream....tooo bad if feels amazing if you use a thin cord.
and for >>37 i reccomend a shower hose... and if not you could use a water bottle and squeeze the water out after you put the end in you bum...
>>38
Not true; as long as you're not actually damaging or tearing your ass, it'll easily go back to normal later. I've stretched myself - slowly - to the point where my rectum starts to prolapse a bit, and once I'm done you can't even tell the difference. Feels totally wild, though.
The first thing I stuck up my ass was a screwdriver (handle first) because it was the only thing around that resembled something I'd want up my ass and I wanted to try it. I thought I could just hold onto the steel bit and use that to push it in and out. So I spat on it and then forced it in there.
At first it was kind of bad and weird, but after a while it started to feel really good. Then I got cocky, like Icarus flying towards the sun. I wanted it ever deeper and stuck it so deep that my ass swallowed the whole thing steel end included. I was freaking out really hard because I couldn't get it out with my fingers and it kept getting sucked up deeper because I was squirming in fear and my muscles were contracting. Tried to shit it out but it was really stuck completely in there..
I started thinking I'd have to go to the doctor and explain having this screwdriver in my ass lol which I really didn't want to since I was young and my dad would have had to take me and he'd go ballistic. So I ended up getting a pair of needle nose pliers (walking veeery carefully and sneakily to the garage where they were) and prying it out. It was pretty painful but it all ended well.
So my only tip is don't stick a screwdriver up your ass even though it feels nice.
When I was 11, I tried stretching my ass with this really large crystal glass bottle stopper, trying to get it all the way in. It was just too big for me at the time, I was lucky it never broke or anything, my mom almost caught me though D:
A little while after that, I got a couple hardboiled eggs (no shell) stuck so deep inside they didn't come out for a few hours.
I try to stick with safer stuff nowadays.
I currently use a large kaleidoscope, it feels sooooo good. =)
What are the oddest things you guys have ever tried using?
I'm a girl, the first time I ever "played" with my butt was when I was when I was taking a bath. For some reason I pushed my finger against my butthole until it went in and I started feeling around inside my anus.I did that for a few minutes while sticking more fingers up my butt (about 4) but I really wanted them deeper inside me... That's when I had the idea of putting a shampoo bottle in there. I put the bottle on the bottom of the tub and sat on it. And ohmygod, it slid all the way up my anus in one swift movement and I came instantly.
Now I let my boyfriend fuck my ass whenever he wants.
(He likes it when I'm "dirty" down there. Hehe)
I like anal stretching.
My limit is abaut 9cm, bones you see.
After I came home I put my 7cm (diameter) toy inside, it's got large head, so it stays inside quite easy.
If I go outside, I'll change to 5,5cm dildo that can't be seen through clothes.
I've done this loosening thing like half year, but every time I get fisted or fucked, my ass is very tight.
It's like my ass only gets tighter and stronger when I want it to be bigger.
Maybe it's 'cos I cant forget things inside me and I keep contracting my sphincter muscle or smthng.
Btw. best fisting is when my colon is already filled with water and then I get hand in there. 'vbeen told it's guite easy to push and find a way till shoulder, when filled.
Goatse is just so ugly word.
Bad karma all over it. :)
Some (of us) just want to be able to take huge things in ass 'cause they/we really enjoy that over the edge stretching feeling.
>>46
I've got my dog to do whatever I'd like, and when he knots he's quite big for a living thing. But I agree, I'd like to someday try it with a horse.
I honestly find goatse quite arousing, I'm such a slut xD
Dog fucker? Srsly?
Goatses at xtube.
(btw. xtube sucks nowadays.)
http://www.xtube.com/user_profile.php?u=KirkJ
Sucking and Fucking a Huge Black Horse Penis Toy deep in my ass and my shaved penis pissing as I suck the giant cock and then cum all over it and suck it clean.
You are a fucking god.
Woah, bump. >_>
I'm finally fapping to a man, although I have to say a woman doing that would be more arousing :)
This has been a hot summer, indeed.
I was about 8 when I started. I can't remember how I found out my ass liked being penetrated, but I immediately started stretching and by 10 (I remember this very well) I could was fucking an upturned Suave Shampoo bottle. I used to use Sucrette's Spray to numb my hole a little while I stretched, which contributed to my quick progress. I was still greedy for more, more than a shampoo bottle anyway, so I started using vegetables out of the garden like zuccini and cucumbers. There was a couple of times when my mom found blood in my underwear (I wasn't as careful as I should have been). By the time I was 16 I was into puberty enough to go to the porn shop and buy a toy, a 15 inch black latex Doc Johnson. The toys have gotten larger since then. Right now my biggest toy is an improvised toy, a large Lucky Dog retriever training dummy. It's about 13 inches in circumference, about 10 inches long, and covered with 1/4 high by 1/4 inch wide bumps. It's extremely intese taking it.
>>44 Thanks for the tip on filling up to get past my sigmoid (I fucking HATE my sigmoid). Fisting is without a doubt the very best feeling EVER! My ex girlfriend loved fisting my ass outdoors. I'd clean out, we'd go for a drive out to the woods and go for a short hike. Once, she even got her hand in me while we sat in the car (some contorting there) in a mall parking lot.
There really should be hookup chan for us pansexual channers.
